Eliminate
Anxiety and Panic Attacks For Good
If you suffer
from...
- Palpitations
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A pounding heart, or an
accelerated heart rate
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Sweating
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Trembling or
shaking
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Shortness of
breath
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A choking
sensation
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Chest pain
or discomfort
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Nausea or
stomach cramps
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Derealization (a feeling of
unreality)
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Fear of
losing control or going crazy
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Fear of
dying Numbness or a tingling
sensation
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Chills or
hot flashes
...then you've
experienced firsthand some of the possible symptoms of a
panic or anxiety attack. If you are reading this page
because a loved one suffers from these symptoms and you
are trying to understand or help, it's hard to appreciate
what they go through.
Just try to imagine what it feels like to experience
one, if you can.
Here is a typical example:
Standing in a supermarket queue, it’s been a long wait
but only one customer to go before you make it to the cashier.
Wait, what was that sensation? An unpleasant feeling forms in
your throat, your chest feels tighter, now a sudden shortness
of breath, and what do you know—your heart skips a beat.
“Please, God, not here.”
A quick scan of the territory—is it threatening? Four
unfriendly faces queue behind, one person in front. Pins and
needles seem to prick you through your left arm, you feel
slightly dizzy, and then the explosion of fear as you dread the
worst. You are about to have a panic attack.
There is no doubt in your mind now that this is going
to be a big one. Okay, focus: Remember what you have been
taught, and it is time now to apply the coping techniques.
Begin the deep breathing exercise your doctor recommended. In
through the nose, out through the mouth.
Think relaxing thoughts, and again, while breathing
in, think “Relax,” and then breathe out. But it doesn’t seem to
be having any positive effect; in fact, just concentrating on
breathing is making you feel self-conscious and more
uptight.
Okay, coping technique 2:
Gradual muscle relaxation. Tense both shoulders, hold
for 10 seconds, then release. Try it again. No; still no
difference. The anxiety is getting worse and the very fact that
you are out of coping techniques worsens your panic. If only
you were surrounded by your family, or a close friend were
beside you so you could feel more confident in dealing with
this situation.
Now, the adrenaline is really pumping through your
system, your body is tingling with uncomfortable sensations,
and now the dreaded feeling of losing complete control engulfs
your emotions. No one around you has any idea of the sheer
terror you are experiencing. For them, it’s just a regular day
and another frustratingly slow queue in the
supermarket.
You are out of options. Time for Plan
C.
The most basic coping skill of all is “fleeing.”
Excuse yourself from the queue; you are slightly embarrassed as
it is now that it is your turn to pay. The cashier is looking
bewildered as you leave your shopping behind and stroll towards
the door. There is no time for excuses—you need to be alone.
You leave the supermarket and get into your car to ride it out
alone. Could this be the big one? The one you fear will push
you over the edge mentally and physically. Ten minutes later
the panic subsides.
It’s 10:30 a.m. How are you going to make it through
the rest of the day?
If you suffer from panic or anxiety attacks, the above
scenerio probably sounds very familiar. It may have even
induced feelings of anxiety and panic just reading it. The
particular situations that trigger your panic and anxiety may
differ; maybe the bodily sensations are a little different. Or
maybe it happened to you for the first time on a plane, in the
dentist chair, or even at home, while doing nothing in
particular.
If you have ever had what has become known as a “panic
attack,” take comfort in the fact that you are by no means
alone.
A panic attack always comes with the acute sense of
impending doom. You feel you are either about to lose your mind
or one of your vital bodily functions is about to cease
functioning and you will end your days right there among the
canned goods and frozen food.
You are by no means alone; you’re not even one in a
million. In America, it is estimated that almost 5% of the
population suffer from some form of anxiety disorder. For some,
it may be the infrequent panic attacks that only crop up in
particular situations-like when having to speak in front of
others, while, for other people, it can be so frequent and
recurring that it inhibits them from leaving their home.
Frequent panic attacks often develop into what medical
physicians refer to as an “anxiety disorder.”
One of the first steps to regaining control of your
life is getting helpful information. This site will give you
that, and more.
The beginning of your recovery starts here. What you
will learn is that there is a very good chance you are about to
end the cycle of panic attacks in your life. You will learn not
only to regain the carefree life you remember once having, but
will also gain new confidence in living. Your answer to living
free from “panic” or “anxiety attacks” is at
hand.
This site demonstrates that the panic and anxiety that
you have experienced will be the very key to your courage and
success.
Begin the road to recovery by browsing through the
site. While many of you may have read almost everything you can
possibly read relating to panic and anxiety I assure you this
site offers something very effective.
Did you know...?
The key difference between someone who is cured of
panic attacks and those who are not is really very simple. The
people who are cured no longer fear panic attacks. I’ll try to
show you how to be one of these people as
well.
What if I told you the trick to ending panic and
anxiety attacks is to want to have one. That sounds strange,
even contradictory, but let me explain.
The trick to panic attacks is wanting to have one-the
wanting pushes it away. Can you have a panic attack in this
very second? No!
You know the saying that "what you resist, persists."
Well that saying applies perfectly to fear. If you resist a
situation out of fear, the fear around that issue will persist.
How do you stop resisting–you move directly into it, into the
path of the anxiety, and by doing so it cannot
persist.
In essence what this means is that if you daily
voluntarily seek to have a panic attack, you cannot have one.
Try in this very moment to have a panic attack and I will
guarantee you cannot. You may not realize it but you have
always decided to panic. You make the choice by saying this is
beyond my control.
Another way to appreciate this is to imagine having a
panic attack as like standing on a cliff's edge. The anxiety
seemingly pushes you closer to falling over the
edge.
To be rid of the fear you must metaphorically jump.
You must jump off the cliff edge and into the anxiety and fear
and all the things that you fear most.
How do you jump? You jump by wanting to have a panic
attack. You go about your day asking for anxiety and panic
attacks to appear.
Your real safety is the fact that a panic
attack will never harm you. That is medical fact. You are safe,
the sensations are wild but no harm will come to you. Your
heart is racing but no harm will come to you. The jump becomes
nothing more than a two foot drop! Perfectly
safe.
This article is
courtesy Joe Barry of the Panic
Away Program. Joe Barry is an
international panic disorder coach. His informative site
on all issues related to panic and anxiety attacks can be
found at the Panic
Portal.
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